According to author, Bob Quinlan, the same principles you use to make business successful can work to make relationship successful. I read all 233 pages of his book, “Earn It Empower Yourself for Love” last week while vacationing at Wally’s Hot Springs in Nevada.
I agree that relationship must be prioritized. You must invest in it if you want it to evolve into a satisfying soul mate experience. I don’t believe you can earn brownie points. Attention has to be a current every day commitment. If you take your partner for granted you cannot expect closeness to continue. Neglect will endanger the relationship.
Author Quinlan emphasizes earning love. Somehow that concept doesn’t fit for me. Certainly loving relationship implies interaction. It cannot survive if one-sided. If Quinlan means relationship has to be give and take, I agree. Do you think people can earn love?