Currently, a debate in the state of California revolves around which sex is more needy. Today’s Sacramento Bee editorial discussed Governor Brown’s proposal to eliminate the California Commission on the Status of Women. The Bee’s position seems to be that while there is official concern about the status of women, the status of men in this state needs attention as well. “After all,” the editorial says, “men in California are more likely to be victims of violent crime–and perpetrators of it–than women. They are more likely to be in prison or homeless or to commit suicide. Men are also less likely to graduate high school or go to college.” And they die at younger ages.
In the same newspaper an article headlined “Assaults, obstacles still stymie Egyptian women” described horrendous assaults on Egyptian women. This gender war has been going on for thousands of years.
Until you open up to learning and understanding the opposite sex, you have little chance of becoming soul mates. A man can never know what it is like to be a woman unless he learns to know and understand the woman he loves. A woman can never know what it is like to be a man unless she learns to know and understand the man she loves. The challenge adds to the excitement of a long term relationship.