When Elva and I teach classes on marriage, I often wonder what people in the class think about me. What type of a mate am I? Do they think I am a mousy compliant man who could easily be turned into a soul mate? Or am I handsome, strong, loving, intelligent, kind, and respectful, the perfect man every woman wishes she could meet?
The truth is I am neither. I am a jerk sometimes and a nice person at times, Just an ordinary guy who often doesn’t listen and can be preoccupied with my own interests.