What about couples like John and Elizabeth Edwards? At one time they seemed to be soul mates. Soul mates do not cheat on each other. Cheating destroys trust. Without trust intimacy cannot exist.
Is it possible for soul mates to destroy the closeness they once experienced? Absolutely. A soul mate experience must be carefully cherished and never taken for granted. Infidelity shatters much of what feels good in soul mate relationships. In her book, “Resilience: Reflections on the Burdens and Gifts of Facing Life’s Adversities”, Elizabeth says when she learned of John’s infidelity, she screamed, cried, and vomited. She was devastated. “All I wanted was my life back,” she writes.
Can John and Elizabeth become soul mates again? Trust, once destroyed, cannot easily be rebuilt. It takes time, lots of time. They may not have long enough. My guess is that is why Elizabeth’s book is titled, “Resilience.”