I am going to be away from my computer for about 10 days. I highly recommend that during this time you check out Joyful Parenting Coaching, an excellent blog by parenting coach, Elisabeth Stitt.
Currently you will find her post, “My Spouse and I Can’t Seem to Get on the Same Page. You will probably identify with the feelings she so skillfully describes. I did.
I want to comment on that blog as an encouragement. Years ago I attended a weekend seminar on Counseling Men. One of the things the expert said stayed with me. He said, “Just remember. Fathers can’t Mother and Mothers can’t Father.” Maybe that will be helpful to you as it was for me.
In October–November Elisabeth will be doing a series of blogs on 3 Steps to Effective Parenting. That should be helpful.
Elisabeth can be contacted at firstname.lastname@example.org